Kissy - I always turn the light on in the afternoon after it is already light out, I figured he would hate it if I just flicked on the light first thing in the morning, (I would hate that!) The gravel in there is like... natural color...??? I don't really know how to describe it. It is like small, natural river rocks that are in red/orange/brown tones. Would that be too light? I'm not sure, I could spring for darker gravel if that is what is spooking him.
im-trying - The main tank is 65 gallons with lots of hiding places like driftwood, fake plants, and rock caves. There are no other botton dwellers, just a pair of dwarf gouramis, (they are suprisingly peaceful! And sooooo cute!

) and some schools of black skirt, black phanton, and penguin tetras. I didn't know how big plecos could get when I first bought him so I was going to put him in with goldfish

, thank god I came here and did my research! So now he is going in the 65. I think that is an alright size for him???
Oh, I definitely want to try giving him cucumber! Will it get the water gross if he doesn't eat all of it and it sits overnight?