Everyone is spaced accordingly I think the culprit was mucked up filters since giving all of the filters a rinse with tank water my ammonia has been cut about 40%.
I had 8 fry and just inherited 4 more today all are either a little bigger then an inch or smaller.
My larger guys 4-5 inches thankfully are in ammonia free water...
I feed the big guys twice a day and the fry 3 times daily...
They are all comets/commons so with the larger one's 20 gallons per fish and the fry are all in smaller tanks but I'm keeping up with the water changes so I hope all will be cycled soon. My cycle was destroyed by a helpful but uneducated boyfriend who thought my filters looked dirty and scrubbed them out with very hot water.