I LOVE SAND! lol.. I find that with malasian trumpet snails and corys i dont need to clean it, as they stirr it up enough that any poop gets skimmed off the top and into the filter and the very tinnnny ammount is just there to fertilise the plants

People seem to be having problems with sand clogging filters, but I have not had this problem. I think maybe its because I have quite coarse heavy sand so it doesnt cloud the water at all... I dunno..
Mine, I just bought from the shop in a clear bag that said sand

its the yellow beach type stuff..
Kids playsand can be used.. I wouldnt go with anything that is closer to dust than sand, I think thats where water cloudiness and filter clogging becomes an issue.