Hey Nichjake, I can help you there.
The main reason why ottos are so sensitive when you first buy them is usually due to unproper feeding and care at the store, and the fact that many are wild caught with cyanide in their streams. If they survive the first couple weeks, your ottos will be around for quite a while.
I have 2 otocinclus in my 10 gallon, and they are actually doing great. My pH is stable at about 8.3 and I don't get *too* much algae, just some brown and a little soft green, both kinds are their favorites. I supplement with a tiny peice of algae wafer 2 times a week at night to keep them fat and healthy. They don't eat too much at a time and wafers swell up huge, so you only need to feed a little and remember to fish out any food remnants first thing in the morning. I do have a planted tank, but their favorite place to be is on the left side near my resin driftwood. Just make sure there is a shady place for them to hide during the day, and that the tank isn't too empty looking.
I wanted a pair of ottos, but I was afraid that they would die like you are because I had a bad history of illness and deaths a week or so after I brought home the new fish. Suprisingly...both ottos survived and are doing great
If you decide to get a couple, pick out two plump and active ottos that are including themselves with the others. They grow quickly but max out around 2".