You might wanna go for guppies or platies first since neons are rather delicate and sensitive about the water quality. Does she have a heater for the tank?
For a ten gallon you could divide the tank and have bettas. Or you could have a few guppies and platies, just make sure you either get all females or all males. Or a school of either glowlight or x ray tetras since these are less demanding. For the bottom you can have three cories, or a few ghost shrimps. These are very good at scavenging.
I think you can feed them betta food since they ussually contain the same thing as tropical flakes. Just make sure you supplement with other meaty foods and veggies. Good luck.