Well, you won't really need the guide or video, you have us for that. You can buy better fish food for about the same price. Cycle is not needed, but it may help get you started. You also do not need the waste control, water changes are always better

I recomend getting 6 first. They will feel more comfortable that way. Keep in mind they will not breed in hard or alkaline water.
I recomend cycling the tank before purchasing fish. Neons are very sensitive to poor water quality and will most likely die (or at least shorten their lifespans) if you use them to cycle. I don't know if you've been told about fishless cycling, but its fairly easy and MUCH less work. You can use cheap fish flakes or a bottle of liquid ammonia, whichever you preffer. The liquid ammonia must not have any added perfumes, soaps or surfactants. Add a tiny bit every day. If you are using flakes, do a 25% water change once a week. This will take about a month and a half. You will know when you are cycled when ammonia and nitrite are at 0, and nitrate significantly higher than the tap. Do a few waterchanges over the course of two days, then go get your fish

Things that you need that are not included in the kit is a test kit for pH, ammonia, nitrite and nitrate, a stand, and a syphon. Gravel would be nice too. Check prices on the necessities online at Petsmart and compare with the kit to see which is the better deal.