well, after an extensive search, i found some very good information on bettas!
it seems that i should never use distilled water because it is too soft and contains no minerals. i am now going to ween "him" over to bottled water.
i am also going to switch his container to a large brandy snifter as well.
the water plant w/roots hanging in the water are gone. when i get the snifter i will purchase a submerged water plant for decor/hiding spot.