Good advice everyone

I just have a couple more things to add.
You should slowly acclimate any new fish to the new water conditions of your water, especially temperature and pH. A pH shock can kill fish pretty fast.
When you say you sterylized the tank really well, what did you use? You mentioned boiling...what things did you boil?
For future reference, you should rinse all new gravel before placing it in the tank. I don't think this is the cause of your fish deaths though, unless the tank water is the same color as the new gravel

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OHHHH i did rinse my gravel .. very well i might add. I poured boiling water over my filter and all its parts and the fake plants and the little nick nacks in the tank. I wiped the sides of the tank well with really hot water (burnt myself). As i have stated i've had many aquariums in my life .. everything from a gold fish bowl to a few monsterous 100+ gallon tanks. Never in my life have i had this problem. I think the tank just doesnt like me. Thanks for all the suggestions though.