Please, do not feel upset - as the others have said -the information can seem overwhelming at times.
If, after reading all that stuff, you have questions, just ask!
Cycling is not as complicated as it seems to be at first glance. There are two types of bacteria that will grow in a fish filter. These bacteria will break down the fish waste (ammonia) - one takes the ammonia and turns it into nitrites, and the second type of bacteria takes the nitrites and turns them into nitrates. This keeps the ammonia from building up in your tank -for it is toxic to the fish in concentrations.
Growing this bacteria in sufficient numbers to handle the waste of your fish is called "cycling". Cycling can take a cople of days or many weeks to accomplish - it depends on a large number of factors.
Once they are grown, it is called the "cycle" of the tank as it goes from ammonia to nitrite to nitrate - the nitrogen is cycled into ever increasingly benign substances.