Hi Nykole! Sorry to hear about your girl. But I don't really don't have any advise to give. I'm going throught the same thing with my male Bo. Maybe we can compare notes?
You added the epsom right to her tank? I gave Bo an epsom bath for about half an hour. Maybe I should put some in his water? I didn't think you could do that for some reason. What antibiotic did you use? I put some Jungle fungus clear in his water. As for what else, I'm hoping for a miracle now. He's so huge it looks like he could pop at any moment. Since it doesn't sound like Mari's pine coning is terribly bad yet, I think you've got a better chance for her making it. Bo looks like he swallowed a big marble! And he wouldn't eat today, either. I'll be rooting for you both, hun!
Erin