He's chasing her pushing her into the walls, plants and floor. This as he nips at her rear end. As far as mood, maybe ... i guess. This is all new to me. Everything I know is just stuff from the boards, personal experience and books.

If by size, definitely because he is 4 inches now not including fins and she is roughly the 4 with fins.
If age, not really sure since I just got them. I did find eggs, after the first time the chasing behaviour happened, but they were all unfertilized. None of them hatched at all out of maybe 20 eggs I saved from them eating and from the filter.